|
Author: Deborah Willis Article source: http://www.opentopia.com/. Used with author's permission.
One of the very worst mistakes a man can make with a woman is to believe that she's an alien creature of some sort. By this I mean that it's a mistake to view women from the stance that they are an entirely different sort of being in every way possible. This simply is not true.
Women are different in many ways, but basically men and women are very similar. Everyone has the same basic needs. Physical needs, such as food and water, of course, are vital to everyone. We all possess the same basic emotional needs as well. We're all human and have the desire to be wanted and needed by someone special in our lives. We all have the need to be loved and cherished.
Men are taught not to be overly sensitive or show vulnerability else they're labeled as "sissy". That attitude may serve them well on the football field, but not in the relationship arena. Women adore men who are able to show their soft side to them.
Women like men who are strong and manly, yet sensitive and caring. Show her you have a heart underneath that tough exterior and she'll love you for it. Go ahead and let your guard down once in a while when the situation is appropriate. It's OK to be a tough guy, but when you're alone with your lady you need to soften up a bit.
If you come across as heartless, she's going to interpret that to mean you are incapable of feeling and experiencing love and she'll write you off as a lost cause. Women possess hormones which cause their emotions to get the best of them at times. That's just how it is and she can't change that.
Men also possess the same hormones in smaller quantities and they're taught early on not to let their emotions get the best of them. This carries over into their adult relationships with women.
Both sexes have a basic need to feel wanted, loved, and cherished. Don't be afraid to do things to show your lady she's loved. Go ahead and leave her little love notes where she's sure to find them. Present her with flowers every now and then "just because". Be kind and caring toward animals, young children, and elderly people.
Demonstrate to her that you are capable of being sensitive and nurturing and she'll soon realize that you're the sort of man she could fall in love with and that you're capable of loving her in return.
If you can show your soft side to a lady and make her feel special and cherished, you'll find this has a boomerang effect and she'll reciprocate by saying and doing things that make you feel wanted, loved and cherished as well.
Remember, those are basic emotional needs for everyone and you should never neglect to inject those feelings into your relationship every chance you get. By doing so, it makes the biggest difference in the closeness you'll develop with her.
Copyright 2005 Deborah Willis All Rights Reserved Deborah Willis is the author of ATTRACT WOMEN -- The Average Man's Guide to Attracting, Dating, Loving, and Maintaining Relationships with Women. For more down-to-earth advice for men visit ATTRACT WOMEN
This article may be freely reprinted as long as the article resource is left intact and there is a live link to the author's web site.
Achieve that Perfect Whiter Brighter Hollywood Smile!
So you are looking in the mirror this morning and what did you see?? Was it white bright beautiful teeth, or like the best part of the population were they loo...
The Hot Air Prime Minister
Commentary about the anti-American actions of Canadian Prime Minister Paul Martin...
The Flow Of Money
The more we worry about money, and who's asking for it, and why their asking, and should they be asking, and should I be listening, and judging others, then jud...
Keeping the Stress out of Single Parenting
Researched through personal experience! by Marta Dodd Budget Your Money. Even if you are living paycheck to paycheck like most of us, knowing how much money goe...
10 Reasons Santas Broke This Year
1. Santa Spends More Than He Makes Santa's paychecks are nothing to sneeze at, but he stays focused on his next raise. (Yes, of course Santa gets a raise each ...
What Makes You Special?
The greatest asset you have is your uniqueness. People want to know what sets you apart from others. Recognise what makes you special and put it into full actio...
Rx for Falling Corporate Profits
Once again the squeeze is on as renewed inflation worries slow the economy's growth and many companies resort to believing that cost cutting is the best means t...
Do You Have Scatter-Brain-Itis?
Are You Suffering From Information Overload?
Web Site Promotion: 42 Deadly Ad Copy Sins To Avoid, To Ensure Rapid Success
Most people who are not doing well on the internet with
their website don't know the cause.
Improvising On The Piano: Jazz Musicians Do It -- Why Not Other Styles?
Jazz pianists improvise all the time. So why not classical pianists, gospel pianists, and piano players of many other styles?
AbGone Review: Potent Fat Burner?
AbGONE is another new product to hit the shelves as an abdominal fat-buster.
Clear Communication: The Benefits and How to Achieve Them
This article talks about the many benefits of clear communication and provides tips on how they can be achieved. It also gives a clear and simple definition of...
Turn An Arts And Crafts Hobby Into A Business
Are you searching for a quick way to make an extra income? Why not turn that Cooking Interest, Comic Book Collecting, or Your Retro Clothing Collection Into A...
Use Display Cases To Showcase Prized Collectibles
There are many reasons you should consider a display case for your home. Display cases aren't just for retail stores. They are an excellent way to show off your...
Owning Your Power
Owning your power, your power to be real, to be who you really are, is really about owning your freedom. Consider how your reasons for not being yourself may ha...
Let Her Be Covered Part Two
A Serious article for the christian teen and young adult. This is part two.
Work Less, Earn More As An Infoproduct Publisher
You may want to join the growing pool of home-based information
product publishers in this exciting business, but wonder where you will find the time? It take...
Buying To Let Top Ten Tips
Buying to let is considered a serious investment and should not be conducted without some equally serious research. Our top ten tips will get you on the right p...
Brain Power - the Main Tool of Your Success Story
Your brain power can write a new success story for you. Remember dull brains don't get big success. This article give you some useful tips to increase your br...
With Outdoor Lighting You Can Enjoy Your Garden Into The Evening Hours
There are so many choices on the market these days for outdoor lighting that you can find something for every budget and something to fit into any outdoor desig...
Can Writing Actually Improve Your Health?
Can keeping a personal journal actually improve your physical health? Experts say "yes"!
The $27,000 Toilet Seat - Funny DIY Story
This story was told to me by a plumber I know and it brings home the reason why there are times to call a professional.
Cash Advance Company - Comparing Payday Loan Companies Online
Here are some tips to help you compare payday loan companies online before you decide.
Real Estate Terms – From Condominiums to Deeds of Trust
When buying or selling a property, it always helps to have a basic understanding of real estate terms. In this on going series of articles, we take a look at de...
|
Print this page