When your single your always imagining meeting that right person. Come on admit it, we all have our fantasies. We also incorporate our fantasies into our daily lives and imagine meeting that person who gets our heart racing and our palms sweaty at the places we go. While we're in the gym we think about it. At work we think about it. While driving we're thinking about it. We think about it a lot!
Certainly while we are sitting at our local coffee shop we look up as someone is coming in and wonder and hope. We hope for that coffee house possibility of meeting that right person. Why not, it could happen and it certainly does! After all you're not the only one thinking about it, we all are. So that person walking in is hoping for the same thing you are.
To give your possibilities more of a chance try going to the same coffee shop and go at the same time. Most people follow routines and by following one yourself you could see the same person regularly. Regularity creates familiarity creating a sense of comfort, which allows two people to ease into conversation. Try not just picking up your coffee to go, sit and enjoy a refill. After all, there are no possibilities while sipping your mocha café latté driving. In fact, take a hot sip while driving and you might have a different possibility, an accident.
When you see that certain someone that cause your heart to have a little arrhythmia, don't just freeze, at least smile. Take a chance and even say hello. You never know unless you try. If it goes nowhere don't worry, the great thing about your coffee house, there is always another person coming in creating endless coffee house possibilities.
So sit enjoy, what's your rush after all the coffee is good and that next person walking in could be the one you want to meet who wants to meet you, anything is possible at the coffee house!
About The Author- As a life & relationship coach, Devlyn has made helping people find ways to improve their lives his personal mission and passion. He is a public consultant, a private counselor, an author and creator of Tools To Life. He has hosted his own radio shows called "Tools To Life" and "Love beat" and has been a guest on over 150 various shows. You can read his articles and advice all over the Internet. Devlyn has often been referred to as "America's Leading Life-Coach." For Free E-books and more information visit www.DevlynSteele.com
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